10 Rules for your 1st meeting with Mistress

If you are about to meet and session with your Mistress, then you should read this. Below are top 10 rules, which, if followed, will not only make your meeting smooth, but also one to remember.

1. BE POLITE, USE YOUR MANNERS

Considering this is your first meeting, you are probably unsure what the preferences or style of your Mistress are. Hence, using a formal tone puts you on the safe side, whether your Mistress is friendly or strict. Demonstrating humility in your messages will show her that you know your place, and will get you started on a remarkable front.

2. DO NOT BE PROFANE

Extend the same attitude you show during official and business meetings to your Mistress. Avoid the “F” words or any other profane remarks.

3. BE CONCISE

Your Mistress' time is precious . Unnecessary conversations may reduce your chances of making the cut.

Stick to brief and concise communications. State your mission clearly – are you just an admirer, or you seek something more? Present your case succinctly using fewer words.

4. BE INCLUSIVE

Capture all the essential information in a few sentences. Doing otherwise will force the Mistress to reply with more questions for you, thus stalling your interaction. For best results, your first message MUST include a name. You may use your real name or choose a unique and not too vague nick. Also, state your fetish interests – those things you crave or might be interested in trying. Lastly, state your request, backed by a precise explanation.

5. NO MANIPULATIONS

As tempting as it may be to appear naughty, freaky, or manipulative, avoid it when sending your first message. These attitudes are great only when introduced in the dungeon. A clear instance of manipulation is showing annoyance with the hope that you get insulted and humiliated by the Mistress in her reply. This may jeopardize your chances, especially if your Mistress is very experienced. Even if she ends up annoyed as you would expect, you and your intents would come as ‘time-wasting’ rather than impressive. In the worst scenarios, you may be blacklisted.

6. NO DICK PICS

Including a photo of your dick in your first message shows that you are a jerk. Unlike males, females’ interests are not piqued by nudity.

She is most likely not interested in the size or shape of your manhood. So, keep it away. Only show your nude pics on request from your Mistress.

7. DO RESEARCH

Rather than bombard your Mistress with several questions, check online for her website or blogs. Information from these resources will help you get familiar with your Mistress. This speeds up the talking phase and presents you as a serious person to her. The fact that you know some basics about your Mistress indicates that you are not just another attention seeker.

8. NO PING-PONG MESSAGES

Do you still have questions to ask your Mistress even after the research? Combine all of these questions into one email and send it. One-liner messaging will do a lot of harm to your communication with your Mistress.

9. DO WRITE CORRECTLY

Avoid language, grammar, punctuation, or spelling errors in your texts. You may use online writing tools to perfect your texts before sending them. Also, factor in your findings on your Mistress when writing to her. What’s her preferred language of communication? Calls or SMS? Does she prefer coded or straightforward texts? Know all these and apply them to your writing.

In all, keep it simple and correct. Your Mistress may lose interest if it takes extra effort to understand your messages.

10. BE EXPRESSIVE

Yes, the nine rules above are essential. However, the tenth and most important rule is to express yourself. Present yourself to her as a well-spoken, polite, and subservient sub. Show your creative side alongside a bit of your personality. You never can tell what precisely will interest your Mistress.

To make things easy, see the example below:

"Dear Mistress,

Your website and photos are really impressive. It is difficult to ignore your sheer dominance and commanding beauty.

My name is x and am really interested in (name your fetish). I would love the opportunity to discuss a session with you. When is it a good time to call/chat about this?

I look forward to your instructions.

Subserviently, X "